| Location | Portlaoise, Ireland |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Miscarriage |
| Date of Birth | 19/02/2006 |
| Date of Death | 19/02/2006 |
| Visitors | 662 since 15/11/2007 |
| Creator |
My darling son Shane, born sleeping on 19th feb'06 at 19 weeks.
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
An Angel Never Dies - Author Unknown
Don’t let them say I wasn’t born,
But something stopped my heart
I felt each tender squeeze you gave,
I loved you from the start.
Although my body you can’t hold,
It doesn’t mean I’m gone,
This world was worthy not of me,
God chose that I move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul,
What you are forced to face.
You have my word, I’ll fill your arms,
Some day we will embrace.
You’ll hear “that it was meant to be”
God doesn’t make mistakes,
But that won’t soften your worst blow,
Or make your heart not ache.
I’m watching over all you do,
Another child you’ll bear,
Believe me when I say to you,
That I am always there.
There will come a time, I promise you,
When you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face, and kiss my lips,
And you’ll understand.
Although I never breathed your air,
Or gazed into your eyes,
That doesn’t mean I never “was”
An Angel never dies.
With love from your precious Angel xxxxxx
to u Josephine
my god what can i say to u. my heart is breaking reading ur letters to u 'bubba'. i lost my brother of 29 years. we used to call each other 'irish twins' cos theres less than a year between us. he was my other half. but to loose a child is a different type of pain, i know cos i see it in my mothers face, its like she just aged overnight. u seem like a loving family. and a wonderful mother. but u know i really believe when were born were given a date to leave too. and nothing u could have done 2 years ago would have changed Shanes destenation. god needed him more, and now he is the 'O 'Connor' Guardian angel. i hope ur pain eases a little with time. im still waiting to go through the motions myself. but i do believe there on our shoulders and if ur ever in a situation where u feel 'this is not right' then listen cos its Shaun telling u something, its not instinct its ur angel whispering in ur ear. he can do more for u up there now. he will guide u. god bless u, ur husband and all ur childern.
sue.
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Happy Birthday
Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear shane, happy birthday to you.
Happy birthday bubba i hope your having a great day, hope you had a fab party like we would have had we miss you loads today and always
All our love today and always
mummy, daddy, sean , patrick and ryan x x x x
hi ya bubba
how is my baby boy?? It's coming up to your second birthday and as everyday it comes closer i can feel it getting harder. I can't believe that it's been nearly two years! I want to know who stole that time as i am sure it's only yesterday.
Sean is doing well he has such a loving personality, he is very good with patrick and Ryan i just know he would have made a wonderful big brother to you. He was only 3 when you were born so he has no memory of that sad time. Sometime i wish he did would love to talk about you to the boys. They do know that when we go to the grave that we are going to see baby Shane but strangely they never ask anymore than that. maybe one day they will and i will be able to sit them down and tell them everything. Sean asked me yesterday about getting another baby, I told him we would have to wait and see maybe god will send us another. I know i had Ryan after you but i just don't think mummy could cope with it all again. Patrick is still as mad as ever he has endless energy and really could say just about anything and normally does! daddy and i couldn't decide what to do about him starting school in sept but we have put his name down just in case. Find it hard to think that then Ryan will be the only one home with me in that day, mummy loves all the maddness that the boys bring! Talking of Ryan he got another tooth on sunday but instead of his top ones he got one of his eye teeth instead so daddy called him dracula! If he keeps that up i will give him a kick on the bum!
I Am going to make the boys luch now bubba but remember that i am always thinking of you and that me, daddy, sean patrick and Ryan love you more and more
All my love now and always
mammy x x x
Hi ya bubba
Sorry it's been a while the moment christmas was over i began to feel a dark cloud come over me! feel like i am just getting along, waiting until 19th feb. It's nearly two years on now bubba and the pain still feels like yesterday. i find myself going over and over that night so many things i would do differently! I would demand they listen, demand that they help us! they say time fades your memory but i can still remember every detail! Am sorry bubba i should have fought hard for the both of us , should have trusted myself!
i have to go now bubba i will write again tomorrow
all my love now and always
hello bubba
Guess what? Ryan finnally got his first tooth yesterday! We were beginning to think he would have that gummy smile forever! Sean and patrick are keeping well, fighting the whole time too but i think thats just the way they show there love!!! I am starting to get excited about christmas can't believe it's coming around so quick! have started to nag your dad about when is he going to put up the christmas lights outside, we usually always do it first weekend in december. We didn't put any lights up last year just a tree for the boys, didn't feel right it should have been your first christmas. am going to put them up this year honey hope you understand we haven't forgot or anything just think its right for your brothers hope you understand. patrick is driving us all mad looking for his bob the builder computer, poor mite has no idea of time and can't understand when its coming!! sean is looking forward to saturday to start his advent calendar am i am dreading the thoughts of going christmas shopping on sunday! Am leaving daddy to make sunday dinner and mind your 3 brothers so keep a eye on him it should be funny!!!!
Anyway amgoing now hun, have to do sean's homework with him.
All our love always
mammy x x x x x
words of comfort
May the God of heaven smile down on you as you battle with your loss, he is the God of all comfort and he will listen to you and answers will be given. Deepest respect.
lighting the way
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Hello Bubba,
I found this today and decided that it would be lovely to talk to you the way i do in my head. I can't believe how time has past since we lost you. I gave birth to your baby brother Ryan on the 7th march this year. That night was filled with such joy and saddness, it only seemed a short time since i was making that journey with you. I must admit i did find it very hard going back to the same hospital and all, as you already know i was lucky enough to be give another delivery room though, which i was very grateful for it was hard enough without being in the same room that you were born in. Your two older brothers came in to see Ryan and I, they were so excited and fighting over who got to hold him first. I just know that they would have done the very same with you! Ryan is getting bigger and bolder by the day, sean and patrick love making him giggle. Hearing those giggles breaks my heart as i can just imagine you on the floor too playing away! When we go up to visit you, Sean still can't say grave yard so he calls it the gravy yard. I bring down your box every now and then wish i had more things to look at and to hold, a picture would have been nice instead of just memories. Chicken mammy is going to go now but i will be back to talk to ya soon ryan has woke up. Remember that i love you always and that you will always be my baby. Daddy, sean, patrcik and Ryan send there love too
All my love always
Mammy
xxxx
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